Does anyone else feel like their “taste in guys” has changed since falling in love?
I first talked to my LDB 15months ago online. I thought he was a really nice, funny guy. When I first saw his face on webcam i thought he was “just ok looking”. We were just friends and i didn’t imagine him being anything else. He had nice green eyes i noted but i didn’t feel all “mushy” it was just eyes. Over time I felt myself getting more and more attracted to him as i started to fall in love, but his appearence hadn’t changed any - just my perception of him changed. Now if i’m with a friend in the park and rating random guys out of 10 due to boredness. I have found myself rating those higher that look like N, when previously my type was long hair, rough looking,rocking, tall and muscly. N is near the opposite of this. Yet I am happy with him, In fact i consider myself to be so lucky that I have such a handsome boyfriend.
I don’t consider myself particularly beautiful… I have a nose that i really think does not suit my face, a below average sized pair of boobs, my weight gain in the past year is more than iv ever gained before, I’m too tall, my hair is currently a stupid Ginger colour due to the sun, and i even hate the little dent between my nose and lips- Almost everything i dislike. Even my long “model-like” legs that all my friends say that they would “DIE TO HAVE” I find faults with.
But N makes me feel so beautiful and special, hes really built my confidence - making me happy to be myself :) I need him in my life.